With Ego There is Selfishness

The Buddha was an awakened person who saw the true nature. The Buddha’s viewpoints and behavior flowed from the innate virtues of nature. When we attain Buddhahood, that is, we see our true nature; our viewpoints and behavior will be exactly the same as the Buddha, because Buddhas see the same reality.

Our viewpoints, speech, and behavior all flow from our true nature when we see our true nature. Otherwise, they flow from our afflictions and residual habits.

Our viewpoints, speech, and behavior are still selfish and dictated by our greed, anger, and ignorance. There is no selfishness or greed, anger, and ignorance in Buddhas’ and Dharma-body Mahasattvas’ viewpoints, speech, and behavior. We should ask ourselves if we are still selfish, or if we still have greed, anger, ignorance, and arrogance. If we still like this or dislike that, we still have an ego that likes and dislike.

When we have an ego, then we still have selfishness. Even if there is only a trace of any of those in us, we are not yet awakened. We still have not seen true nature.

One who has seen true nature is completely free of selfishness, greed, anger, ignorance, and arrogance.

~ Based on Ven. Master Chin Kung's 2003 lecture series on the Amitabha Sutra

On Work Ethics

• Do whatever needs to be done, irrespective of whose responsibility it is. As long as you do it willingly, you will earn merits for yourself. Do not criticize others for not doing their jobs. Bad-mouthing will only create negative karma. Remember, you are working for no one else but yourself in order to eradicate your karmic obstructions.

• In addition to perseverance, an attitude of non-attachment is also necessary to do a job well. Non-attachment does not mean indifference or carelessness, but rather you should do your best and not worry about the results. If your mind lingers on the task after it is done, it is a sign of attachment. Such attachment will obscure your wisdom, generate vexation, and even spoil your accomplishment.

• “Don’t think too much” does not mean that you should not use your head and make plans when carrying out a task, but that you should not dwell on it once the job is done.

~ Analects of Master Kuang-ch'in

Imbued With Good Will

The Buddha said that there are five aspects of speech by which others may speak to us: "timely or untimely, true or false, affectionate or harsh, beneficial or unbeneficial, with a mind of good-will or with inner hate."

In these circumstances, we should train themselves by thinking: "Our minds will be unaffected and we will say no evil words. We will remain sympathetic to that person's welfare, with a mind of good will, and with no inner hate. We will keep pervading him with an awareness imbued with good will and, beginning with him, we will keep pervading the all-encompassing world with an awareness imbued with good will—abundant, expansive, immeasurable, free from hostility, free from ill will."

In other words, when others are speaking to us we should strive to maintain a calm, clear mind and not allow our emotions to dictate our response. By maintaining a stable mind, we will not say anything that could harm the other person or create an enmity. Instead, we will respond with good will, not just for that individual but or all beings. 

~ Kakacupama Sutta quotes translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu

I Couldn't Have Been that Bad (Could I?)

I was reading a post on another Buddhist blog and the entry was about personal progress. The writer thought that he hadn’t made any.

We ourselves are often not be the best one to determine this.

Before I became a nun, I would take my mother and her friend, Ruth, shopping and running errands with me. It was still early days in my practice and I hadn’t noticed any change. But my mother knew me very well. When Ruth asked if there had been any change in me since I became a Buddhist, my mother went on at some length about how I was happier and much more patient now.

She went on at such length saying how much calmer and easier to get along with I was since practicing Buddhism that I finally interjected that I couldn’t have been that bad before! (Apparently I had been worse than I thought.) Mom, Ruth, and I laughed and they cheerfully moved on to another subject.

What I now realize is that we may not be the best judge of whether we are making progress. Maybe we are expecting, or hoping for, a dramatic change. Maybe we are being too hard on ourselves to judge impartially. Those who spend time with us and know us well are just happy to notice that we more at ease with ourselves and more patient with them.

So if we want to know if we are making any progress, it might be better to ask those who know us well. But be prepared for a lengthy and detailed answer!

Gossip

When we gossip about others it may feel that we are not doing any real harm. After all, what we say will most likely never be heard by the person we are talking about. So what's the harm?

When we engage in idle gossip about others, we waste our time and energy as well as the time and energy of those who are listening to us.  If we were saying good things about the person, we would be praising them not gossiping about them, so the likelihood is that we are saying something unfavorable. Even if what we say is just not particularly kind, even an unkind thought is negative and plants another negative seed, as we commit another negative karma.

Also when we gossip, we don't have any sense of fulfillment.  We didn't accomplish anything, and worse, we lost sight of our aspiration to awaken and help others awaken.

Finally, just as we view those who gossip as untrustworthy, our engaging in gossip deems us untrustworthy in the eyes of others.  So good people will pull back from talking to us and, eventually, only those who do not value integrity will want to spend time with us.