What we take for someone’s unwillingness to help . . .

Self-sacrifice and selfless behavior

aren’t just for the big things in life.

Years ago, a friend shared with me a special moment that happened at his church. With a minister who was appreciated for his inspiring and passionate sermons, the popular church had grown to become one of the largest in the area.

One spring day, when the church was filled with several hundred people, the minister completed his closing words and looked out over the congregation. He paused to gather his thoughts and then began to speak.

“I have been talking to you today about compassion. About putting the needs of others before our own. Of even sacrificing our personal happiness for that of others. Over the years, as I watch you all get into your cars and depart, I realize my pleas for humility and self-sacrifice may not be the first things on the minds of busy people. But today, could you please—just as far as the parking lot—do not determine to be among the first to leave!”

Sometimes it’s the little things that provide the most memorable lessons.

I resolve to refrain from anger. Instead, I will . . .